Chaos is a ladder, many who try to climb it fail, never get to try again. The fall breaks them. And some are given a chance to climb, but they refuse
Why aren't you happy? What do you want that you do not have?
When I try to understand a person's motives, I play a little game. I assume the worst. What's the worst reason they could possibly have for saying what they say and doing what they do?
If you want to build a better home, first you must demolish the old one